• Productivity

    Wake Up Early

    No matter how early I am scheduled to arrive at work I make sure to set my alarm clock a few hours early. This can be a challenge sometimes. I have never been a morning person and frequently stay up until the wee hours of the morning but the results are worth the extra effort. I wake up, stumble through…

  • Frugality,  Minimalism,  Personal,  Simplicity,  Success

    Is Your Life in the Black?

    I ran into an old friend the other day. We hadn’t seen each other for several years so we took a few moments to catch up. My friend announced proudly that he had recently purchased a house, showed me his car, and bragged about his high-paying job. He was a little worried about making the new house payment but his…

  • Productivity

    Take Advantage of Downtime

    Many years ago I was waiting somewhere for something. A lady came in after me. Once she found out that there was going to be a delay she settled down, pulled out some yarn, and started crocheting. While the rest of us shifted and grumbled, she contentedly tinkered on an afghan she was creating. Curious and bored, I started a…

  • Life,  Success

    How I am Teaching Responsibility to my Young Adult

    As my daughter Katie neared her 18th birthday the inevitable challenge arose: “I’m almost 18!” she huffed at me one day. “You need to start treating me like an adult!” “I’ll treat you like an adult when you start acting like one,” I retorted firmly. This led to a conversation about what it takes to be considered an adult. I…

  • Productivity

    Ten Things to Do When You’re Bored

    “I’m bored.” Those two little words can strike fear into the heart of any parent. Whenever a kid is bored, trouble is not far behind so we strive to find something interesting to keep the kids occupied. Boredom is something that affects adults as well. While periods of boredom can be good for you, we often end up turning on…

  • Productivity

    Having a List Can Increase Productivity

    A cherished part of my childhood was spending part of each summer vacation with my Auntie. Not only did I get to play with her kids, she lived a totally different life from my parents. I’ll never forget the day when I saw her sit down with a piece of paper and start writing. “What are you doing?” I asked.…

  • Happiness,  Success

    Fighting the Good Fight

    Life, no matter how you arrange it, is far from perfect. We all have things that we need to deal with. In my personal journey, I am dealing with a brain disease as a result of an injury I suffered some time ago. I have a choice: I can sit on my ass, whining and crying, or I can plow…

  • Success

    The Art of Teaching Yourself

    Not everyone can manage to get a formal education. In some instances, the subject of study desired isn’t even offered in a class. I learned a long time ago that if I wanted to learn about something I would have to figure out a way to study it outside of formal methods. This determination has served me well. When I…

  • Success

    Dealing with Challenges

    One of the things I haven’t written about lately is the fact that I’m laboring under a distinct challenge: due to the head injury I suffered a while back (2015?), I ended up with demyelinating disease. To sum it up, my memory stinks and is only going to get worse. I also ended up with some physical limitations aside from…

  • Success,  Writing

    The Stupidity of Self Talk

    The past few days I’ve had a sick kid at home. I’ve been chowing down on jalapeño peppers as I hacked my way through writing this novel in hopes of not catching what she has. Brilliant woman that I am, I stayed up past five in the morning on Wednesday knowing that I had to get up at 8 to…

  • Success

    The Secret to Accomplishing Goals

    I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and he told me that he’s always wanted to write a novel. “I’ve got lots of ideas,” he said, “I just don’t have XX and YY and ZZ.” I must confess that I went on a bit of a rant. I’ve started out and over more times than I can…