• Finances,  Life

    The Necessity of Facing Reality

    Now that I’ve had time to breathe, it is time to face my current reality. I need to know what I’m facing in order to move forward. Facing our current reality is a necessity. Burying your head in the sand won’t help one bit. You must know exactly where you stand, regardless of how shaky the ground so that you know…

  • Life

    When the Unspeakable Happens

    We all have our demons. For the most part I keep mine stuffed in a box that I have hidden in the back of my mind. They like to escape sometimes, as they did recently when I made the mistake of watching Ford testify during the Kavanaugh thing. Those demons caused me to go on a crying jag and write…

  • Finances

    The Power of Priorities

    We don’t think much about priorities. We’re usually too busy putting out fires in our day-to-day existence that we shove them aside. This is a serious mistake. When we don’t set priorities, we set ourselves up for failure. My personal goal is to achieve complete financial freedom. In order to achieve that goal I set a series of smaller goals…

  • Happiness

    A Word on Coping

    There was a study done about drug addiction a few years back. Scientists took two rats. One was placed in a basic cage with no mental stimulation, while the other was placed in “rat heaven,” a cage filled with mazes and other things that the rat could use to keep occupied. Each rat had two water bottles. One bottle contained…

  • Happiness,  Success

    Fighting the Good Fight

    Life, no matter how you arrange it, is far from perfect. We all have things that we need to deal with. In my personal journey, I am dealing with a brain disease as a result of an injury I suffered some time ago. I have a choice: I can sit on my ass, whining and crying, or I can plow…