The First Step to Freedom – Eliminating Habits

When times get tough my first instinct is to start slashing at my expenses like Freddy Krueger in a nightmare. This time I’m doing something a bit different.

Years ago I used cigarettes to control my anxiety when dealing with a personal issue (long time readers know the story). While I have no regrets concerning that decision, the situation that inspired it has long passed and it is time for me to move on. My initial attempts to eliminate smoking from my life resulted in abysmal failures so I took a few steps back and brainstormed the situation.

In December of 2021 I decided to attack the issue sideways. Instead of creating a goal to eliminate smoking, I decided to transition to vaping instead. This would allow me to eliminate at least some of the addictive chemicals from my life. It took almost a year but the day arose when I lit up a cigarette and immediately began coughing. It tasted disgusting for the first time in years!

Delighted, I called it a victory and settled into life as a vaper while I began to experiment with ways to eliminate vaping. I tried reducing the nicotine content (I just vaped more frequently) and cold turkey (I was impossibly irritable). I finally found a solution that worked. A nicotine patch, when combined with the occasional nicotine lozenge, gave me just enough of what I needed to eliminate the vape from my life.

I am now in the process of eliminating the patches. I will keep a small supply of lozenges on my person for a while as a precaution.

When we think about our finances we tend to overlook how our health and our habits can affect our financial lives. The habit I adopted almost two decades ago not only negatively impacted my heath (increasing the potential of medical bills), it was a daily drain on my budget. While the cost of the patches and lozenges have caused a slight increase in my spending, it is still lower than it was when I smoked cigarettes so I consider this a win.

Once I finish this task I have set for myself there will be one less item in my life that I must pay for. As a bonus, my health will improve. I consider this to be my Long Game project, and I am close to victory.

Habits can be anything. They can be cigarette smoking (like mine), that daily latte from the coffeeshop, or the service subscription you feel you cannot live without. Each and every one of these habits are not only a drain upon our finances, but a tether that makes us more dependent upon money and other societal services.

Do you have a habit that you can eliminate? Please share your story in the comments below.

4 responses to “The First Step to Freedom – Eliminating Habits”

  1. ‘slashing at my expenses like Freddy Krueger in a nightmare’. – that is hilarious. I find myself doing the same thing when I realize that too much stuff has crept back into my life and I am starting to suffocate again. Congrats on your progress toward being tobacco/nicotine free! It isn’t easy to quit. I did it 27 years ago and I am so thankful to have that monkey off my back. Plus, I am happy to no longer support the tobacco corporations. My abhorrence for corporations has led to other lifestyle changes and choices- I walk wherever I can so I don’t support the oil corporations. I refuse to eat junk food/processed food so I don’t support the ‘food’ corporations. All of these choices lead to better health so I don’t support the sick care industry and pharmaceutical corporations. I don’t subscribe to anything that costs $$ so I use the library for music, movies, books. Our libraries and park system are probably the best things about our country, imo. Annie, your posts are always so thought-provoking. I am going to take this weekend to review my expenses (and habits) once again, looking for more ways to not spend! Thanks much.

    1. Essie, you are my frugal heroine! I have a vehicle atm, despite not really needing one here, but I have it for a reason, which I’ll discuss at a later date.

      I will share one reason: as a renter who chooses to live in a flood zone (cheap rent!) that car is a potential home if things go south.

      1. Having a vehicle to flee a flood is a darn good reason!! Yikes!

        1. I LOVE the rent and the fact that my landlord leaves me alone. Besides, it’s just stuff and this is simply a place to rest. Why pay almost twice as much if I don’t have to?